Substance abuse by teens is common. A national survey shows that 80 percent of students will have tried alcohol, more than 40 percent will have used marijuana and 9 percent will have taken prescription pain medication for nonmedical reasons by high school graduation. More kids now smoke marijuana, in fact, than tobacco.
The widespread use of these substances makes it difficult to address, and it’s hard to know how serious the problem is without an evaluation. Even kids with addictions may minimize their use, believing that alcohol and drugs are "just part of growing up." While most kids try alcohol and many try marijuana, substance-abuse disorders -- the ongoing use or use associated with problems -- are rare and suggest more than just "experimentation."
Another problem is secrecy. Kids don’t want parents to know about their drug use, and most of the time they don’t. By the time a parent thinks there might be a problem, chances are there’s a big problem.
So what can parents do? Here’s what I recommend.
* Talk openly and discourage your child from using substances. All substance use is dangerous for kids. When kids drink they tend to binge, and because they’re less susceptible to the sedative effects of alcohol than adults, they’re more likely to engage in dangerous activity with impaired judgment. Marijuana use can result in mood disorders, and
* Recognize that teen substance abuse is a big problem and no one is immune. It can reach children from all social and economic classes, races and religions, girls and boys. Age offers no safety net either: I have treated children as young as 11 in my clinic, and the National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism recommends screening children starting at age 9.
* Be aware that the sources of substances kids abuse often comes from their own homes -- liquor cabinets or home medicine cabinets -- and take steps to prevent easy access.
* Take advantage of opportunities to talk. A news article about a crash caused by a young person driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol, and resulting in death or serious injury, can lead to useful conversation about the tragic consequences of drinking or drug use and driving. An alcohol or beer commercial, movies, or television programs offer other opportunities.
* Look for changes in behavior. Mood swings, irritability, withdrawal from social situations, declining school performance, a change in friends, or loss of interest in things they once liked are indications something is wrong, and often, substance abuse reveals itself through these signs. Parents who notice such changes should consider bringing their child to be evaluated.
Should your child need help, a good place to begin is with your primary care physician who can play an important role in identifying and intervening in substance abuse by adolescents. Bring your concerns to the doctor, describe them in detail, and relate what you’ve noticed. Then let the child talk to the doctor alone. Physicians are trained more and more today on how to assess a child and figure out what might be happening. If necessary, a referral can be made to a mental health counselor or specialist in substance abuse treatment.
Treatment programs are available for many substance-abuse problems and disorders. For parents worried about the cost of treatment, my advice is simple: You can’t afford not to. Untreated, the problem likely will get worse, resulting in harm to the child, a lost future, even death. For those feeling financially strapped, I urge calling all available resources -- insurers, clinics, your physician -- for advice on available services.
Above all, parents should remember the good things about their child, even as he or she copes with substance abuse and treatment. They should try to rebuild the relationship while working on changing the behavior.
For more information and my hospital’s approach to the problem, visit the Adolescent Substance Abuse Program at www.ChildrensHospital.org/ASAP. For a video discussion, visit www.physicianfocus.org/youthsubstanceabusetreatment.
Sharon Levy, M.D., M.P.H., specializes in development and behavioral pediatrics and is director of the Adolescent Substance Abuse Program at Boston Children’s Hospital. Physician Focus is a public service of the Massachusetts Medical Society. Readers should use their own judgment when seeking medical care and consult with their physician for treatment.